Wednesday, March 2, 2011

if i could teach my son only one thing......

If I could teach my son only one thing, it would have to be about the building blocks of life. After high school-first comes college (with a good major that is fun and will lead him to a good job), then a job that will lead him to a good future, then a family that he can have and raise with his good education and his good job. I would teach him how important it is in life to have those 3 things. If my son wants to live a happy life, he would have to have a family of his own. I would show him that by making him see how happy I will be with his father, my husband. I do not want him to be lonely for life and I hope to have grandchildren. I will raise my son well and make sure he has a good childhood to make him see that he will also be able to raise a son of his own the way he was raised-the way I raised him.

College, job, family. I have seen parents who teach their children the same things, but harshly. This is a bad influence on the child because he will either end up raising his child in the same harsh way, or not want to have a family at all. I will let him know how well I was raised by my parents and how being raised by my parents lead me to a good and happy future. I know that if I did not have the parents that I have now and if they did not teach me everything they way they do, I would not be who I am today. I would not be as happy as I am. I will tell my son this and do the same for him as my parents do for me now.

The most important part of teaching my son this is about family. I consider all these things that I have mentioned one thing to teach my son. But if I had to choose one very specific thing out of this whole lesson it would be about family. The most important thing in life is family and I would let him know that by showing him how much I would do for him as his mother. I would sacrifice anything I have for my family and my son will need to know that too. This is the key to that one thing that I could teach my son. Without parents, we would not be able to have a great education. Without family, we would not be able to have a happy and fun childhood. Without family we would know how to make good decisions in life and all this leads to going to college, getting a job, and raising a family.

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